ahoxus pleroma

my first adaptation of the challenges from arthur aaron to guarantee falling in love (when done offline, live and for at least 2 hours). try it in any order:

+ given the choice of #anyone in the world, whom would you want to meet for 1 hour?

+ would you like to become #famous? in what way or why not?

+ before making a telephone call, do you ever #rehearse what you are going to say? why?

+ what would constitute a “#perfect” day for you?

+ when did you last #sing to yourself? and to someone else?

+ if you were able to live to the #age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

+ do you have a secret hunch about how you will #die?

+ name at least three things you and your partner appear to have in #common.

+ for what in your life do you feel most #grateful?

+ if you could change anything about the way you were #raised, what would you?

+ take at least four minutes and tell your partner your life #story in as much detail as possible.

+ if you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or #ability, what would it be?

+ if a crystal ball could tell you the #truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

+ can you think of something that you’ve dreamed of #doing for a long time? why haven’t you done it?

+ can you share the greatest #accomplishment of your life?

+ what do you #value most in a friendship?

+ would you share your most #treasured memory?

+ how about your most #terrible memory?

+ if you knew that in one year you would die #suddenly, would you change anything about the way you live now? why?

+ what does #friendship mean to you?

+ what roles do love and #affection play in your life?

+ alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your #partner. share a total of five items.

+ how close and warm do you consider your family? do you feel your #childhood happier than most other people’s?

+ how do you feel about your relationship with your #mother?

+ make three true “#we” statements each. for instance, “we both feel in this room ... “

+ complete this sentence: “i #wish i had someone with whom i could share ... “

+ please share something very #important for your partner/friend to know.

+ tell your partner what you like about them; with full #honesty this time. think of things you would not say to someone you’ve just met.

+ share with your partner an #embarrassing moment in your life.

+ when did you last #cry in front of another person? by yourself?

+ tell your partner something that you #like about them already.

+ what, if anything, is too #serious to be joked about?

+ if you die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most #regret not having told someone? why haven’t you told them yet?

+ your house, containing everything you own, catches #fire. after saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. which one? why?

+ of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most #disturbing? why?

+ share a personal problem and ask your partner’s #advice on how pers might handle it. also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to feel about the problem you have chosen.